Hello, and welcome back to Dokta Laura.
Thank you for joining me today in my talk of sex.
At some point in life, there comes a time when couples wonder and ask themselves; What is the average amount of sex that other couples are having? In all honesty, I genuinely do not understand this question because it sounds like a competition rather than a genuine lack thereof engagement and sex. Sex, be it mental or physical, is more than most will comprehend.
Intimacy, along with sexuality, is all about the engaging and experience rather than the numbers. I’m more interested in couples and fabulous sex experiences. If you are tuned into DoktaLaura, then together, we’ll advance our sexuality rather than how many times we have sex.
There’s no one right answer.
I do know when couples stop having sex, their relationships become vulnerable to anger, detachment, infidelity, and ultimately divorce. So let’s get down to real facts. We can only see the same face, the same body, and live in the same space for so long before we get bored, right?
So this is where I come in. Bring back that one memory of the first time you met. Now keep that memory in your thought pattern. Bring in new everything, from wigs to lingerie, toys, to role-playing. After all, a couple’s sex life is affected by so many different factors: Factors such as age, lifestyle, each partner’s health, natural libido, and, of course, the quality of our overall relationship, to name just a few.
There are many ways to renew sex as I mentioned previously, add different positions with different places. Maybe you feel you’ve experienced them all, but what about all places and areas around your space? How many mirrors have you used? Have you ever videoed your sex experience? Try it by using mirrors and then some. Pretend you are a virgin in the experience and try it all over again. Think about it for a second. We gave ourselves this facade of what virginity means, right? But what if every new sex experience became a virgin in its own right?
We all fantasize, and many are scared to speak such fantasies. I say live it up even if you have to change the sex, age, and everything in between. What if either one wanted to experience anal sex or anal sensations, and we’re scared to mention or explore due to mental hangups or what others preached.
So anal sensations will be my next upcoming topic.
One may think all of your pleasures have been fulfilled, but trust me, we haven’t begun to experience all pleasure in sex. The reason I know this is because sex and all it’s experiences are never-ending.
Trust me, there are no porns that exist in my sex life, except for the ones I make in my bedroom. We can’t begin to think we have experienced or seen or even know what all our sex lives involve because Porn is for visual stimuli, while real sex with our real partner/s is for our actual physical and mental stimuli.
With this in mind, don’t forget to tease, have lots of foreplay, and express yourself.
Until next time!